i'm more happy now coz i figure out somethings tt confuse me so much...i been tangle in between all the relationship problems...family/friends/elderly....
i figure out----
- FORGIVE others, coz angry and hate someone is a burden for ourselves,while other parties are not affected at all, so why torture urselves???
- FORGET about all the unhappiness stuffs...it is just like letting go all the bad things from ur hand so tt u can pick up the good ones....
- GRATEFUL to all those pleasant and unpleasant events,coz we will get to learn and see and benefit throught everything,what matters is ur perpectives!!!
- UNDERSTAND people by standing in their shoes,reduce the chances of misunderstanding thus prevent all the unhappiness...
- ACCEPT whatever it is,especially to those tt already happens,coz what done cannot be undone,so why bother to reject it?
however,figure out does mean have achieve it...i'm still on the way to do all these...will set it as my goal to achieve all 5 pointers at the end of 2008....
